A database of common texts and phrases men use that often signal mixed intentions, emotional unavailability, or commitment issues.
This page contains a curated database of common dating phrases frequently used in text messages and conversations. These phrases often appear harmless on the surface, but can signal deeper patterns such as mixed intentions, emotional unavailability, avoidance of commitment, or low relationship investment.
Each phrase in this database is explained in a clear and practical way, focusing on behavioral meaning rather than guesswork. The goal is to help readers understand what these messages often imply in real dating contexts, so they can make more informed emotional and relational decisions.
"I'm not looking for anything serious right now."
"Let's just go with the flow."
"I'm just really busy with work right now."
"My ex was crazy."
"I'm bad at texting."
"I don't want to ruin our friendship."
"You deserve better than me."
"I've never felt this connection with anyone before."
"I'm not ready for a relationship right now, but I really like you."
"You are just so intimidating."
"I was just joking, you're too sensitive."
"I hate drama."
"Let's just see where the night takes us."
"Don't worry about her, she's just a friend."
"I'm sorry you feel that way."
"I'm not like other guys."
"We have such a crazy connection, let's skip the small talk."
"I'm terrible at making plans, I'm more spontaneous."
"I've never met anyone like you before."
"Sorry, my phone died."
"I have trust issues because of my ex."
"I want to be exclusive, but not put a label on it."
"I really need to focus on myself right now."
"Do you want to come over and watch a movie?"
"I'm kind of seeing someone, but it's complicated."
"Why are you acting so crazy?"
"Good morning beautiful (mass text)"
"Hey stranger."
"Omg I'm so sorry, I drafted a reply and thought I sent it!"
"Sorry I've been quiet, I deleted the app for a mental health detox."
"Work has just been absolutely insane this week."
"I promise I'm not ignoring you!"
"I'm just in a weird headspace right now."
"I miss your face."
"I lost my phone / got a new number."
"I pulled back because I didn't want to lead you on."
"Sorry, had a family emergency."
"I got scared because I like you too much."
"I literally forgot to hit send."
"My social battery is just drained."
"Sorry I fell asleep."
"I have my notifications turned off."
"Just saw this!"
"Can we raincheck? (and never reschedules)"
"U up?"
"Thinking of you."
"*Left on Read*"